Wow. Sometimes when someone can put something into words that you have tried in vain to communicate to others, it feels like an enormous release. I want to hug both women who wrote these articles. It's incredibly comforting to know there are some very loving people who understand. Makes one breathe a little freer.
A Non-Mother's Day
http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/05/07/a-non-mothers-day/
Why Not Just Adopt?
http://www.creatingafamily.org/blog/infertility-fertility-trying-to-conceive-ivf-donor-egg/adopt/
I'm having some trouble with creating the links today, but an old-fashioned cut-and-paste will do.